Thursday, September 17, 2009

This is Dedicated to YOU ~ PIC

I have we, I think we all have one, if not, you should........


That's right, I gots me a ride or die chick. Now, they don't always have to be chicks, but in my case, mine is.

You know, regardless of the day or the hour, the color or the flavor, she is willing and ready to mobilize at the drop of a pin to get it in, whatever it is.

If it's donning Ninja Suits and jumping out on your dude or his car, she's down.

And in the rare occasions that she cannot join you on your escapade, she will have her ear glued to the phone giving you step by step instructions on how to wield a sledgehammer through your cheating man's door.

If you need to go underground for a sec or two, she's willing to hide you under her bed, in her closet, and allow you to go through whatever it is you need to do.

And on occasion, she will feed you, clothe you in a tube, and supply you with know help you do everything that you are scared or ain't supposed to do.

And most importantly, she will laugh at you.

So this post is dedicated to my PIC. We have had our share of ups and down. And times when we didn't want the other around. But you have been tried, tested and proven true (on most occasions cuz you do have your flaky moments). I never needed a Sasha Fierce because I always had you. You to tease me when I was hiding under a car, you to dress me when I needed to look fly, you to listen to me as long as I didn't cry, you to cover for me as long as it wasn't behind a tree, you to remind me of all the crazy, embarrassing, semi-illegal things I've done when I needed to remember where I come from. And for that, I

Yes, THANK YOU, Mcfly for being there for me, and helping me sort it out, regardless of the topic, regardless of the hour. Thank you for allowing me to grow without the judging eyes and for reminding me that I was 2Legit2Quit. From Tsenre' to Safeway, From Yor to Brown, From Teddy to T.I., oh and let's not forget your favorite: Kream. You were there to help me sort out and pick up the pieces.

It's funny cuz life has it's way of turning your world upside down. And well, right now mine is teethering, and so my thoughts are of you. At first, I thought it was because I needed wanted you to ride shot-gun while we go look for that fool. But now, I realize it's because regardless of the pain or the stressing, the trial or the tribulation, you thought me a valuable lesson:

To Laugh, Even When It Hurts

And for this PIC, I thank you. I thank you for allowing me to share my hurts, pains, and embarrassments. I thank you for giving me only laughter in return. ( I still don't think you should have laughed at me falling in that hole in the stage BEFORE you found out that I was okay) I thank you for sharing your family and giving me a safe place to call home. I thank you for not abandoning me until I was ready to stand on my own. I never needed an alter ego cuz I always had you. True we don't talk much at all these days, but you will forever be my cuzzo, my sistah, my friend. You are my sunshine, my only sunshine......

"To live, is to learn that not all of life's lessons are pleasant. Laughter is to Life, what Sugar is to Medicine, it doesn't take away the sting or the taste, it just makes for a smoother ride. Sometimes I want to just break down and cry, but instead I laugh, and so should you."

~Gotta Luv Moi, Cuz I Surely Do (Smooches)

*****My internet is still shaky so forgive me yall. I will be in internet heaven this weekend and will be dropping pass all of your pages to catch don't mind the late comments. Mr. Chap, I couldn't figure out how to leave a comment on your page...until then yall, forward moving.



  1. There is an award for you over at mine.

  2. Hey Girl!

    Ive been really busy, I need to catch up with you and I will when I get a moment later.


  3. That made me cry. I love you too FOOL!!! You are crazy, but yes, we've had our share of ups and downs and yep, I'm a flake, but I learned from the best, so thank you! I still owe you a call and to be honest, I never really wanted to ever talk about it again, I went in his barbershop for the first time Friday and just about lost it. Pray for me. I'm praying for you, but I'm praying for Mikey even more for havin ta deal with a crazy hiding under cars and behind trees while breathing into a Mistic bottle so as to not get high, Mama!!!! Love you!!!!

  4. @ Chic Mama... Thank you... I will go and hopefully I can find it cuz I am so late... I miss you.

    @ JB...well as you can see I have been really busy too..lmbo.. but I will be catching up with u this week...I do follow your updates on FB though...6 months to go...wooho

    @PIC.. i couldn't have asked for a better PIC... lawd knows i could use u today. ninja suit on!!! (and I am praying for you... you know I miss him too.. his death has taught me that I have to do better with living my life and not just floating through it...)

  5. I just read this again & it's just so darn sweet & perfect. I'm SO GLAD we communicate on an almost daily basis now. I know you are too, no need to tell me. :P Love ya Honey!